I heard people say that a crush only lasts for about 3 months. More than that you’re already inlove. Well I really don’t know if that’s true or not. Personally, I have crushes that last as long as…10 years? Yeah…kind of stupid right? I don’t how I was able to hold on to that that long. But I just did. As long as they can brighten my day up, they may still be my crush.
Before “things” has happened to me, I only see the term crush as a part of growing up. All of us have it, even the little ones does. But as I grow up, and as I experience things (fall inlove, get hurt, then fall again) I start to realize the benefits of having a crush. But sometimes they don't only serve as our source of positive vibes, they could also be our reason for hiding from the truth because we've been hurt so much in the past we'd just want to settle in this no- strings-attached kind of thing. And let’s all be realistic cause most of the time we don’t end up dating our crushes. Lucky for those who does, though.
Anyway…let’s proceed to the PROS and CONS.
PROS:
That person gives us that special feeling (almost or maybe comparable to the feeling given by a special person whom you may be in a relationship with ) without the headache that real relationships give. It is kind of childish but admit it, IT’S FUN. It’s almost kinda like playing safe. Especially for those who are afraid to get hurt (like me I guess). It’s like holding onto something imaginary but still it can keep you going. It’s like finding a reason or a thing that can make you’re entire bad day shrink and can finally pull the corners of your mouth into a smile. That blood rushing through the vessels of your cheeks, that heart skipping a beat, all are clichés but definitely are true. And those things make you happy. Sometimes, it could even bring the best out in one person because they wanted to either 1)impress him/her or 2) be in his/her level or 3) get his/her attention. And it won't be necessary to recover from a fight or worse a breakup cause those will never occur. You’re off the hook from pain. Although one thing you have to face is that he/she may never be yours. Now that is one of the cons.
CONS:
Im just going to run through the cons cause nothing could be said more about these things cause they are rational. They don’t need a flowery presentation like the pros. Haha they’re almost like a fact you know.
• it’s stupid, especially when that person doesn’t even know you exist
• it’s kinda like having an imaginary friend
• he/she will never be there for you when you need him/her (unless s/he is a friend) if you’re not in his radar that is
• it can be pretty tiring
• you’ll become smarter than the FBI in finding info (that’s not a good thing cause it’s kind of creepy)
• you will neither be geniunely happy nor genuinely hurt
• you’ll miss out the fun of dating cause all you can do is stare :))
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